Pink Tape

A BLOG FROM THE FAMILY BAR

...in which I ricochet from too serious to too flippant and where I may vent, rant or wax lyrical at my own whim, mostly about family law. Constructive co-ranting welcome. More...

A confusing post-script

I came across an article in the Gazette this week with the headline: Judge issues pre-trial legal aid plea after mother left alone The article refers to this judgment of DJ Keating: London Borough of Sutton v A mother & Anor [2025] EWFC 147 (B) (bonus points to the Gazette for linking to it). The judgment is a final decision in care proceedings, and the first 97 paragraphs are the main decision and conclusion (the child was to remain living with extended family due to deficiencies in the mother's parenting). The article isn't about those, but is about the last 3 paragraphs, appearing under the heading 'other matters'. They are so short I'll repeat them in full: Other matters 98. I was told that M did not have the benefit of a conference with counsel to help prepare for what was a 4 day long contested final hearing.  I am told that was because her lawyers had asked the legal aid agency to pay for 3 conferences, two of which took place at Court at an early stage of the proceedings,...

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The small matter of fees

I know we're not supposed to mention fees. It's crass to talk about money - that's what clerks are for and all that. But now, it seems, we are expected to keep calm and carry on without any expectation of prompt payment of fees at all. An unspecified amount on an unspecified date. Many legal aid lawyers would say this has been the case for a long while now, so erratic is the legal aid payment system, but at least there was a process and a rule book. And in fact FAS claims, at least, were reasonably efficient. Now, as a result of the hacking of the Legal Aid Agency's systems, they can't see how much we are owed, can't accept new claims, and can't pay us. For an indefinite period of time, now acknowledged to be the situation for the foreseeable future. Here's the message we all got last week: It is unlikely that all services will be fully resolved in the short-term. As such we are now refining further plans for contingency, in the event that the need for contingency continues beyond...

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Remembering Mr Banks

I know some would say I have a tendency to overshare, but I'm afraid it's hardwired, so look away now if that sort of thing makes you feel uncomfortable. There are some things I haven't shared though. The last few years have been...complicated at home. You will have seen oblique references to it here https://www.pinktape.co.uk/rants/the-beacon and here https://www.pinktape.co.uk/rants/what-are-we-doing-with-our-lives/ In September 2022 dad had a stroke. He had been caring for mum (to a far greater extent than we had realised because they hid the full extent of it from us, not wanting us to be worried). We took over from him, caring for mum at home for about a year until she moved in with us and the family home, now unoccupied and sad, had to be sold. And then Mum passed away in March last year. The two posts above relate to that period of selling the house and dealing with my mum's death. In May this year dad passed away too, after a pretty awful last month. We buried him last week....

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Mea Culpa – a rather belated clarification

Some past version of me wrote a blog post in 2019, which someone recently reminded me of. It said that the family court can't order seizure of a device. Oh, I said glibly, I must have written that before the creation of the family court in 2014, because that definitely hasn't been the case since then. Except now I check, I wrote it in 2019. And the court definitely had those powers in 2019, by virtue of s31E Matrimonial and Family Proceedings Act 1984, as clarified by Re K, and FPR Part 20: 20.2 Orders for interim remedies (1) The court may grant the following interim remedies – (a) an interim injunction; (b) an interim declaration; (c) an order – (i) for the detention, custody or preservation of relevant property; (ii) for the inspection of relevant property; So, what did I actually say? The Family Court itself has no obvious realistic mechanism at its disposal to seize, download and analyse the contents of a digital device such as a smartphone in the absence of a criminal...

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A learning experience

Two judgments have been circulating this week which reflect very badly on lawyers, or at any rate on two individual lawyers. I’ve been thinking a lot about them. They are uncomfortable reading for any lawyer and for any person who cares about justice. Because justice depends upon competence and ethics of lawyers and these judgments remind us that neither is a given. Though my 20 plus years of experience reassures me that the vast majority of lawyers are both good at what they do and trustworthy, there are exceptions and it’s simply no good to pretend otherwise. I speak from recent, depressing experience.   Sometimes a lawyer is a perfectly good lawyer but just out of their depth in the particular case, or overburdened and overwhelmed through no fault of their own – these lawyers need more support and more experience. That support might be from line managers or from other more experienced colleagues, it might involve formal training, mentoring, support to help manage workloads,...

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About this blog

“Pink Tape” isn’t just about family law. I post about topics that interest me, which mostly revolve around family law, but also include non-legal family-related topics as well as unrelated subjects. I hope this blog will convince at least one person that not all of us in the legal profession are money-hungry sharks. Some of us are actually quite nice. Additionally, I aim to provide useful information about family law for those working in the field without being too heavy or boring.

The primary goal of the blog is to improve the quality of public information and discussions about legal issues.

I understand that not everyone is a fan of “Pink Tape” or family lawyers in general.

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I may have been gone some time…

Posts are getting ever more infrequent around here. Doubtless in part because of my continuing inability to say 'no'. Having been on the verge of being virtually committee-less at the end of last year, I now find myself back on two committees (FLBA, Bar Council). The...

Transparency and the Courts – Event

Transparency and the Courts – Event

It is a principle of law that justice must be seen to be done - but sometimes for various reasons the court will order reporting restrictions on the proceedings as well as keeping certain matters confidential.   The new Lady Chief Justice has set up a committee to...

The alienating guidance has landed. Take me to your guidance document

In a moment of pre-Christmas over-exuberance, Zoe Saunders and I decided it would be a good idea to harness the last dregs of our 2024 energy and deploy them in the preparation of a podcast episode all about the much awaited alienating behaviours guidance, which had...

Life is like a Christmas Fridge…

I have lain in bed for much of the first day of 2025, pretending to be on the verge of taking a shower, and pondering what to make of it. An inauspicious start to a year that I fear is going to be another complicated one chez nous. I have been doom scrolling crochet...

What a week

Well. It's been a week, hasn't it? It's Friday night and I'm holed up in my office-cum-santa's-grotto (one has to forge a path through the amazon boxes to reach the desk) contemplating life and everything family law related this Friday evening....the teenagers have...

The Law Show

I had to get up at 5.30am to make it to the studio to record The Law Show for BBC Radio 4. I was somewhat sleep deprived anyway as a result of having a hurty leg over the weekend (don't laugh it's been excruciating). I woke groggy from some interesting new medication...

Book Review: “Child Care and Protection: Law and Practice”

This is a review of “Child Care and Protection: Law and Practice” by Safda Mahmood and Julie Doughty (7th edn, 2024, Wildy, Simmonds & Hill) by Dominik Morton, Barrister at St John’s Chambers.   A little bit about me first of all. I am a barrister at St...

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