The Beacon
The light over the front door flickers at The Beacon. There is a bit of damp creeping up the plaster and into the wiring. My dad would have fixed it, but he hasn't been there for a year. There is a 'sold' sign at the top of the drive and my heart is breaking. The contract for sale sat on my kitchen table and watched me, taunting me to sign it for days until I gave in. Signing away our family home of 49 years, my memory bank, the place which connects us and where so many important things happened (so many small things, big things, small-big-important things), the walls where I was loved and comforted (and sometimes scolded), cooked for and spoilt (just a bit). The place my brother and I have always run for shelter when life gets difficult. The house is mostly empty now. It smells wrong, and everything looks slightly burnt out. But every time I go back to gather more things the memories jump out of the walls at me like fragments of a life that was once mine but is slipping away. When I...
‘Please don’t confuse your ChatGPT search with my law degree’ AKA ‘The A.I. faked my homework, Sir’
Civil Lit Tweet's Gordon Exall highlighted a cringeworthy judgment today that really demonstrates the dangers of AI in a legal context. More importantly it demonstrates the particular dangers for people who are not egally trained, and don't know what they are looking for or how to verify results or spot hallucinations and bad points. In this case a litigant in person who was representing herself at a tax tribunal appeal quoted nine AI-generated Tribunal decisions on 'reasonable excuse'. They looked plausible, but when the lawyers smelled a rat, it was discovered that none of them actually existed and they didn't actually reflect the law. Luckily for the litigant in person the tribunal accepted that the litigant in person was unaware of the issue - she hadn't known to check BAILII or The National Archives for the source material. There is a slightly more detailed summary of the case on Gordon's blog (link above), and for those who want to read the full judgment (which has possibly the...
Delay Repay
In the golden age of rail travel when I were a lad I didn't need to worry about delay repay. A train delay was a rarity that could be borne with equanimity, even if one couldn't easily spell it. Now, it is a point of principle that on every delayed journey (which, let's face it is every journey taken) I sit and complete the delay repay claim for the previous delayed journey. If the train wifi is up to it. Which it usually isn't. There is a serious point here. Two actually. A toofer bonus. Firstly, a reminder to those who are more junior than me that this is available (I'm sure you already know it), and you should claim for your travel delays where you can. Although I am still currently twitching about a scarring experience involving a fight to the death between Cross Country and Aviva West Coast as to who would compensate me for the rare but wasted first class ticket I bought on the day of the big storm (I know, I practically caused the national rail disruption by stupidly buying a...
Love the one you’re with
Showing my age there, using *that* song title as a name for my post... But then, I am getting pretty ancient. As evidenced by the fact that this month we hit our 23rd wedding anniversary. I say hit, it was more the sort of dull thud that a pigeon makes when it knocks itself out careening into your patio doors. Once again, we've postponed the celebration, romantic weekend away bit of the anniversary. Other things seem more important right now and people need our attention. But we did manage to exchange cards a week after the actual anniversary, and to share a bottle of fizz before collapsing on the sofa in a snooze pile. We family lawyers spend most of our time immersed in other people's relationship breakdowns, how it happened and how it has affected the family. I've been surrounded by broken relationships for almost as long as I've been married (I started my legal training the week after I got married, skipping the first week's lectures to tie the knot). We have a running joke in...
No Frills Justice – Part 2
This is part 2 of a post about my observations at Central London Family Court in September 2023. In part 1 I described the first hearing I observed, Here I tell you about the second case I observed and make some general comments about my experience as a legal blogger. So, back to the third floor of the CFC. At the end of part 1 I left you at the door of court as everyone in the first case had all dispersed... Shortly after, the other 2pm case in the list is called on. The clerk has enthusiastically shooed me into court with one hand whilst shooing the parties away with the other, so I exchange a polite greeting with the judge and sit for a minute or so in awkward silence in court before the parties and their lawyers come in. This case is showing on the list as an interim care order removal hearing, but it takes me a few minutes to work out who is who and why the matter is at court. I piece together that the case is about a child, Brianna*, approaching secondary school...
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Panorama – Protecting Our Children – A Balancing Act
Ironically, given the title, the preponderant comment I've seen about this Panorama (even before it was aired tonight) is a complaint about a lack of balance. Social workers (because it did seem mainly to be social workers making such comments on my social media when...
Self-reflective learning journal (aka navel gazing)
Fresh back from a CPD weekend and I'm full of ideas for blog posts, albeit slightly tired and emotional (there may have been some socialising too - the children keep correcting me when I say I've been away for work: 'No mum, you've been to a party!'). Anyway, high...
Lying lawyers – when is a lawyer misleading the court?
It's not uncommon to see litigants complaining on social media about lawyers lying on behalf of their clients. It's almost as common to see lawyers getting a bit twisty about those complaints, and feeling affronted at the suggestion. This is because honesty is...
Beware free lunches
When I first wrote the Family Court without a Lawyer back in 2009 I didn't write it for McKenzie friends to use, but I do know that over the years many have bought it, have come to rely upon on it and to recommend it. Those who have read it will know that in the book...
Delayed Reaction…
Today's mediocre blog post is brought to you from the Sunday sofa of covid...(actually, its probably just a mild non-covidy virus, but confirmation is awaited)... I blame any typos, non-sequiturs, offence or error on the wretched germs. I did read the President's Case...
The burden of proofing dough
The metaphor in the President's latest view about the self-perpetuating problem of the backlog has sent me into a sort of weird fever dream : "Backlog and delay in the Family Court are not, therefore, static; like dough proofing on a baker’s shelf, they have the...
The Tracks of My Tears (A recipe for the harmonious drafting of orders)
Lawyers have different views about and approaches to drafting orders. Many lawyers have *strong* views about such matters. Personally, I am a fan (within reason) of tracking. It is precisely the tool for the job. Not everyone agrees, though. Whilst a reluctance by a...
Defining coercive or controlling behaviour
Last week HHJ Dancey published a second judgment in a case involving allegations of rape and domestic abuse including coercive and controlling behaviour (the judgment is A Child (Application of PD12J : No.2 - Findings of Fact) [2022] EWFC 2). He didn't find the...
Nothing to see, move along…(pseudo-post)
I wrote a long blog post with the above title. It was prompted by the recent displays of competitive outrage and rightness by legal twitter, although the post was not about such displays. It was about actual law and legal practice. I think it's quite a good post. But...
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